Dear Single Women of NYC: It's Not Them, It's You. - Page 1 - News - New York - Village Voice: If you're like me (and I think a lot of us are), you might say you can't stand drama and that all you want is a nice, stable relationship with someone who loves and treats you well, but "nice" and "stable" have hardly the appeal of words like "exciting" or "passionate" or, well, "drama."
Four in 10 people consider marriage obsolete.